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live and learn: 16 Harsh Truths That Make Us Stronger

Mon, 23 Apr 2012 01:17:53 -0400

live and learn: 16 Harsh Truths That Make Us Stronger :

Life is not easy. – Hard work makes people lucky – it’s the stuff that brings dreams to reality. So start every morning ready to run farther than you did yesterday and fight harder than you ever have before.

You will fail sometimes. – The faster you accept this, the faster you can get on with being brilliant. You’ll never be 100% sure it will work, but you can always be 100% sure doing nothing won’t work. So get out there and do something! Either you succeed or you learn a vital lesson. Win – Win.

Right now, there’s a lot you don’t know. – The day you stop learning is the day you stop living. Embrace new information, think about it and use it to advance yourself.

There may not be a tomorrow. – Not for everyone. Right now, someone on Earth is planning something for tomorrow without realizing they’re going to die today. This is sad but true. So spend your time wisely today and pause long enough to appreciate it.

There’s a lot you can’t control. – Wasting your time, talent and emotional energy on things that are beyond your control is a recipe for frustration, misery and stagnation. Invest your energy in the things you can control.

Information is not true knowledge. – Knowledge comes from experience. You can discuss a task a hundred times, but these discussions will only give you a philosophical understanding. You must experience a task firsthand to truly know it.

You can’t be successful without providing value. – Don’t waste your time trying to be successful, spend your time creating value. When you’re valuable to the world around you, you will be successful.

Someone else will always have more than you. – Whether it’s money, friends or magic beans that you’re collecting, there will always be someone who has more than you. But remember, it’s not how many you have, it’s how passionate you are about collecting them. It’s all about the journey.

You can’t change the past. – As Maria Robinson once said, “Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.” You can’t change what happened, but you can change how you react to it.

The only person who can make you happy is you. – The root of your happiness comes from your relationship with yourself. Sure external entities can have fleeting effects on your mood, but in the long run nothing matters more than how you feel about who you are on the inside.

There will always be people who don’t like you. – You can’t be everything to everyone. No matter what you do, there will always be someone who thinks differently. So concentrate on doing what you know in your heart is right. What others think and say about you isn’t all that important. What is important is how you feel about yourself.

You won’t always get what you want. – As Mick Jagger once said, “You can’t always get what you want, but if you try sometimes you might find you get what you need.” Look around. Appreciate the things you have right now. Many people aren’t so lucky.

In life, you get what you put in. – If you want love, give love. If you want friends, be friendly. If you want money, provide value. It really is this simple.

Good friends will come and go. – Most of your high school friends won’t be a part of your college life. Most of your college friends won’t be a part of your 20-something professional life. Most of your 20-something friends won’t be there when your spouse and you bring your second child into the world. But some friends will stick. And it’s these friends – the ones who transcend time with you – who matter.

Doing the same exact thing every day hinders self growth. – If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting. Growth happens when you change things – when you try new things – when you stretch beyond your comfort zone.

You will never feel 100% ready for something new. – Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises. Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means you won’t feel totally comfortable or ready for it.

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Sun, 18 Dec 2011 01:07:04 -0500

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abbyalcala: dust (by Abby Alcala) William took a picture of me...

Fri, 09 Dec 2011 01:29:45 -0500

abbyalcala:

dust (by Abby Alcala)

William took a picture of me and my favorite camera yay

Seriously the BEST neighbor I could ever ask for. <3

Mr. Agan called me Tupac the other day and Andrew is trying to...

Fri, 02 Dec 2011 00:48:34 -0500

Mr. Agan called me Tupac the other day and Andrew is trying to get with the program too with me and my boi.

Oh gosh… Hahahahaha.

Wed, 30 Nov 2011 02:57:27 -0500

Oh gosh… Hahahahaha.

Pretty late, but I just saw these pictures from my last day of...

Sun, 27 Nov 2011 16:43:01 -0500

Pretty late, but I just saw these pictures from my last day of summer 2011 at Mendocino for my mom’s birthday. Looking back, it brings back some good memories and laughs. Love them.

thedailywhat: OMG! Adorbz of the Day: Precocious pink princess...

Sat, 26 Nov 2011 15:52:57 -0500

thedailywhat:

OMG! Adorbz of the Day: Precocious pink princess Sophia Grace Brownlee returned to Ellen this week with her relatively reserved pal Rosie to cover the American Music Awards on behalf of the show.

Things get adorable in a hurry.

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I have a feeling that I’m gonna regret putting this up...

Fri, 25 Nov 2011 16:50:00 -0500

I have a feeling that I’m gonna regret putting this up soon. Haha! My Ate Via and I got bored for a little after all the food was gone. And I know this is a day late, but HAPPY THANKSGIVING from my family to yours. Yesterday was most definitely a great day with my family. n_n